There really not what they say....

as a independent self sufficient true to myself woman, i find myself being able to read people very easily. if i feel like your lying u probably are. if i feel like your beating around the bush, then u probably are. drama is embedded in womans jeans. im okay with drama as long as you keep it to a certain degree. when u start lying to people then it makes me wonder. obviously everyone hates a liar. but what about that liar that just lies to keep the window of oppurtunity opened. i was in a discussion a little bit ago and the conversation consisted of...so whats with your girlfriend? ohh ya know she wanted to thank you for everything, shes just a little shy and has been hurt in the past so she has her guard up. REALLY? ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS? ok it gets better....so you fucked up huh cuz now ur single on facebook. well no she just doesnt want to make it official because she has trust issues. GIVE ME A BREAK! i mean unless im the fucked up one who has trust issues which most likely not, i dont believe this for one minute. ohhhh i have trust issues so i cant press a button from single to in a relationship? ok honey, um leme break it down. she just has other options. this is not hard. poor guy truly thinks hes got her. the bitch has got u on the back burner my friend. its as simple as that. how does one not notice this? the obvious is right in front of him yet he chooses to be played. i know when im being played before the mother fucker thinks in his head..."time to play lauren." Woman embarrass me and this is why we get the run around all the time. men think were all the same but were not. i dont have enough energy to say...umm sure ill call you or yea lets hang this weekend but never show up.. its either yes or no. we think we are helping them out and sparing there feelings but we really arent. guys are alot more easier than we think. i find myself feeling bad for this guy and i would love to just say oh honey get rid of the bitch but he worked way to hard(from what i hear that is) to get her wall down. or so he says she has a wall....(see...there i go sparing his feelings) hey slick rick...there isnt a wall! we all have been using that excuse since day one. were all adults so time to act like it. if you dont like someone then say it. no run around. u dont owe anybody anything. now because i try to not be one sided lets just say she is telling the truth....(which shes not but lets pretend) if she is then how much does one have to do to break a wall? how worth is it nowadays for that one person? think about it....anyone can go anywhere to find someone. its very simple. why find the one who challenges you? because men loveeeeeeeeeee a challenge... if they really want they will wait as long as they can to get you to break that wall...physically mentally and emotionally....then they accomplished there goal. then out of nowhere they start acting different. why is this? cuz they have nothing to look forward to now. they just broke there back breaking you. there tired and now bored. ladies, if we are going to challenge lets not throw it all at once. you cant expect them to work there asses off then u give in and them be all intrigued by u still...theres nothing else to look forward too! so much i must teach these woman. i wonder if theres common sense classes for the retarded woman out there? nieve is not in anymore ladies....get with the program. the steam has exited my ears and now im over this....gnite to my two followers lol